My close friend, Donna, passed away in a recent car accident.  The article.

Take the time out to tell your friends and family how much they mean to you.  Listen to them when they need someone.  Someday you’ll wake up and they won’t be there because we are not invincible.


One of Donna’s favorite quotes:

suppose you’re in love and someone’s mistreating you, you don’t say, ‘hey, you can’t hurt me this way, i care!’  you just let all the different bodies fall where they may, and they always do may after a few months. but that’s not why you fell in love in the first place, just to hang onto life, so you have to take your chances and try to avoid being logical. pain always produces logic, which is very bad for you.” - Frank O’Hara.