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Dec
09

2009 in review

I don’t even know where to start with 2009.  It’s been a rollercoaster year of trying to figure out my life and myself.  I’ve had a difficult time staying positive about most things because there always seems to be a downside to everything. It’s been a year of discovering changes, meeting a lot of new people, travels, and setting personal goals.

So what’s next?!  I’ve lived in Philadelphia for a little over 13 years now and I’ve always had a love-hate relationship with this city.  Alas, it has never felt like “home” to me.  I feel like I’ve spent the better part of the last 8 years just floating along and not doing anything in my life.  Granted, I don’t regret it because I never would have gotten to the point where I am today.

Traveling has been the one goal that has stuck with me ever since I was young.  I’ve always wanted to “see the world”.  And while everyone is always saying that I’m going somewhere and I travel more than most people do, I personally don’t feel like I’m traveling enough.  In August when I left Calgary, one of my best friends told me that I need to give up my life in Philadelphia so that I can change my life and travel.  I left telling him that I can’t do it because I am too settled at this point in my life now.  Fifteen minutes later, I was on the plane and crying my eyes out because I knew that he was right.  We live finite lives and we’re not getting younger.  We can’t take our “stuff” along with us when we die.  And whomever said that there’s no time like the present was right.  So I will live out those dreams of traveling and photography.

For the last four months, I’ve been creating lists of pros and cons on moving out of Philadelphia.  The pros won. So sometime in the next couple of months, I am moving out of Philadelphia for good.  I don’t know exactly when I’m moving, where I’m moving to, or what’s next and it scares me.  My plan seems to change every week, but I’m realizing that maybe not having a plan is “the plan” after all.


5 Responses to “2009 in review”


  1. 1 Matt H. Dec 29th, 2009 at 4:51 pm

    Mostly up, but some unfortunate downs; you had an amazing year! Best of luck on your new adventure, Philly will miss you.

  2. 2 ken zirkel Dec 30th, 2009 at 12:56 pm

    Wow. That’s a big decision. A lot of people dream of living the unconventional life of travel. It sounds like you are in a position to do it. Certainly it matches well with your photography career. Color me envious.

    You might be interested to see this blog. As far as I can tell, it’s by a guy who lives as a traveler:

    http://chrisguillebeau.com/3×5/

  3. 3 Amy Kobylarz Dec 30th, 2009 at 5:09 pm

    I’ve always admired your passion and determination and motivation. You’ve accomplished so much and seen so much. I don’t know how you could still feel like you are missing out on life. I really envy your life and wish I had the courage to just pick up and follow my dreams and go wherever life takes me the way you can. I’m one of those who always has to have a plan and overanalyze everything. But you aren’t afraid to take chances. You should be proud of you. I’m proud of you. You’re an amazing person and I’m sure that whatever you decide next will be great.

  4. 4 Angie Jan 1st, 2010 at 9:55 am

    Go for it Andi! Life is short, and you should do things like this while you still can! Besides, how else will you have amazing stories to tell once we’re older? I personally wish I could do it.
    When I moved to Philly I wanted to see new pastures and to shake up my life. At the beginning I found people that started to use me instead of being friends…but slowly I found the good friends that I now have (and I ended up finding someone amazing, and i’m very glad)

    We’ll be here if you ever need a Philly couch to crash on (and waiting to hear about your travels over a pitcher of sangria!)…HAPPY NEW YEAR!!

  5. 5 Carol Benedick Cope Jan 27th, 2010 at 6:02 pm

    Wow, What a year. You should be really proud of yourself Andrea for all of the things you have accomplished at your young age. More than most people only dream about. I share your passion for travel and wish I could do more with my children and husband. Be proud of your achievemnts and follow your dreams if have the opportunity and means to. Remember,you are right where you are supposed to be and I will be thinking of you as you plan your next adventure. I am currently in a similar situation in that I am not sure what my next move will be after putting my career on hold for the last 9 years in order to raise my children but I pray that god will show me the way and so far I have been able to use resources to guide me to what will hopefully be my next adventure. Good luck and godspeed! If your travels take you to Doylestown or New Hope be sure to look us up!

    Your cousin.

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